Honoring The Elder

Honoring The Elder

Many cultures have a custom of honoring those older in community as elders. And elder has a connotation to it that leaves a sense in the mouth of wisdom, life experience, and worthiness of respect because they have made the journey for many years. In this connotation is a belief the persons have a value meant to be passed on. It is as though they have reconnoitered the land we are just beginning to tread.

In America the place of our seniors has been challenged. We are a free market society where each individual is honored for having control over their future, their success and what constitutes their personal stability. Working hard and working smart for what we want is esteemed highly, and considered the way success is achieved.

This is not unilaterally true, but there is truth in the observation. For years and years people of other nations have seen America as the place of ‘freedom and democracy,’ a place where one can achieve their dreams. These are qualities worth preserving as a way we can mature as a nation. The downside of this personal agency is the relative dismissal of the community as a collection of people all having something valuable to bring to the table. And when someone loses their ability to perform in the ways society sees as valuable, that very someone may be considered a burden or even one in need.

The middle ground is the constant invitation. To preserve free market and to preserve the value of each person based on another set of criteria instead of only one set of social norms.

Could we possibly create a new way to look at the seniors in our midst? Even if they may not be able, or want to, run a corporation to make multi-million dollar profits, they do have unique gifts to share to remind us of what life is about.

As the American dream breaks down before our eyes we have the chance to let the shakeup lead us to a new paradigm. One factor would be to redefine our relationship to those aging among us.

Elders. We could begin to see seniors as elders. The very word differs from the latter. Senior denotes a chronological fact. Elder connotes a relationship to those around them.

Beginning to shift this term leads to practical implications. It leads us to ask different questions. Instead of asking, ‘What nursing home will take care of our seniors?’ We could ask, ‘What type of medical care would preserve the health of our elders so we can continue to have them and their gifts among us?’

This new question leads down a very new road, already paved with alternative modalities for health, new research in the field of gerontology, and even options of social paradigms offering a quality of life for our elders happening in our very midst.

Let’s ask new questions, therein we find answers to a new paradigm to honor our elders.

What Is Normal Aging Anyway?

What Is Normal Aging Anyway?

This article poses a simple question. But is the question really that simple? How would you answer it- ‘What is normal aging, anyway?’

It seems that one of the advantages of the globalization effects of the internet and technology is the shake up to our ideas of what is normal. We are exposed to all sorts of cultures and individuals telling their stories of getting older, or belying the aging process. We hear how people in China age differently based on their diet and culture. We hear how some live to be over a hundred and others die in their sixties. And even though formulas are created to tell us if we do what ‘they’ do we too will live longer, is it so?

While this could be debatable what is within our personal power is to challenge our assumptions around what it means to age. So first, let’s start with your definition. Before reading further, if you will entertain me on this one, write down your own definition to the question, ‘What is normal aging?’

Okay. Now you have that to hold up to the concepts and research offering new ideas to describe and even redefine the aging process. Is aging an inevitable downward spiral? Are we bound to the genetics of our past? Perhaps not, especially if we frame aging in a completely new way.

A prevailing definition of what it means to age normally is to assume that our cells are programmed to degradate, which means to simply wear out. We can accept this as the inevitable case or we can ask why our cells would have that programming. If we ask why, we can discover that the belief itself sets up the programming. This kind of pattern is so entrenched in the collective of humanity we may not be able to completely dismantle it in our cells, but we can certainly approach our health that way in small steps.

Let’s take a practical example. What if 90% of your family has a history of diabetes. Would you assume that you too will probably end up suffering diabetes? Would your language begin to mirror this belief because research has shown that we are affected by our genetic line? You could walk down that road.

Or you could consider the research in other fields, such as epigenetics that contributes our response to our environment to have a larger percentage of influence upon our health. This would take us deeper out of the strangling idea that we have no power since it runs in our genes. But it does push us into a realm of greater responsibility. It could lead us to take a look at our family line and see that everyone has grown up with, and eaten a diet heavy in the very foods that cause trauma to the pancreas, liver and digestive system. We could see that the normal aging of cellular decline happened because the diet was rich in high processed foods and poor in nutrition and balance. And we could observe that our relatives that have diabetes are eating poorly. Then we step out of the system and choose.

If we are courageous we could take on a personal challenge to see if we function more effectively if we make a small change to our diet. And if we function more effectively it is fair to say that it is happening on a cellular level. Hence, we are helping our cells shift from a pattern of degradation to regeneration.

In the next articles I wish to get into other concepts tied to normal aging such as random damage, cross linkage and allostatic load (or homeostatic imbalance.) And then of course we can move into a deeper understanding of the ways our personal choices can directly influence our personal normal aging.






New Ways to Identify with Age

New Ways to Identify with Age

We would all like to defy the aging process. Who among us would not want to be able to have the energy, creativity, stamina and discipline that characterizes youthful bodies and minds.

It is quite possible to bear more influence upon our personal aging process and even the paradigm that is reigning in our culture. One way to begin would be a look at our language. Do we bring in all sorts of assumptions when it comes to chronological age? Sentiments such as, ‘well you know when I was thirty years younger, I used to be able to….’ Or even, ‘now that I am forty years older I just can see the way I used to…’ While there is a certain amount of truth to the statement of such a fact, it gives a kind of reinforcement of what is expected to begin to get harder, or work less easily, or be more painful as we age chronologically.

What if we began to frame things using the word biologically? What if we learned more about our bodies, minds and hearts, their true state of health and the possibilities to increase or change our health for the better solely in relation to this direct experience?

When we get to know what we are capable of rather than impose ideas of what is inevitable, we open new avenue of possibility. For instance we could look at how much energy we have, or do not have, and approach ourselves with an open question, ‘What could I do to have more energy today?’ And if our stamina declines we could look at factors that are measurable like inflammation or stress and work with our actual biology by introducing techniques and methods like nutrition, exercise and meditation and begin to actively shape our biology.

Not only do we help ourselves in reframing our relationship with the aging process but we begin to create a new paradigm for aging in our world!

5 Things to Be Thankful For This Holiday Season

5 Things to Be Thankful For This Holiday Season

ornamentsThe festive season is upon us again, and as you prepare for spending time with your friends and families, sharing holiday meals and exchanging presents, spare a few moments to be thankful for these healthful resources which can reduce your risk of developing Dementia and Alzheimer’s as you age.

Craniosacral Therapy

A welcome solution to reducing the risk of Alzheimer’s is craniosacral therapy (CST). One of the contributory factors to both Alzheimer’s and dementia is inflammation of brain tissues. Lifestyle, stress and diet can increase this inflammation. CST is a non-invasive technique that allows the therapist to use their hands to feel and gentle manipulate the flow of cerebral spinal fluid (CSF) as it circulates within the cranium, along the spinal cord, and down to the sacrum. A health balance and flow of CFS, blood and interstitial fluid is vital for the brain to perform optimally. When these factors are imbalanced the brain gets insufficient oxygen, meaning it will become over-exerted, fatigued and memory functions will begin to deteriorate. The aim of CST is to increase the flow of vital fluids and enhance memory.[1]


You may be surprised to known that researchers have found that regular exercise can help reduce your risk of dementia and Alzheimer’s.[2] It does so by building up part of the brain that Alzheimer’s causes to decline and eventually perish. Regular exercise causes the cerebral cortex – the outer layer of the brain – to thicken, increasing protection against dementia. A minimum of 150 minutes of exercise per week can improve your memory function in just three months.

Transcendental Meditation

Mediation is nourishment for the mind and for the body. It re-energizes the mind and body when they are weak and exhausted, it calms the energies of the mind and the bodies when they are anxious and tense, it rebalances the body’s energies when they are out of sync. Meditation can also reduce the risk of dementia by increasing blood flow to the brain, increasing the brain’s protective tissues, reducing stress and boosting mood and general wellbeing.

Healthy Eating

A healthy doesn’t have to be a life sentence, even during the holiday season. There are many useful resources out there to give you ideas for healthy meals that can actually help to reduce the risk of dementia and Alzheimer’s. A great example is The Alzheimer’s Prevention Cookbook, which has a hundred recipes to boost brain health. There are many other resources which can help prepare tasty meals, snacks and desserts for the holidays and year-round.


During the holiday season, many people are partying and having fun. This often means late nights and lack of sleep. When the holiday time is over you may be feeling the negative effects of sleep deprivation. Getting a good night’s sleep  is another step to combating dementia and Alzheimer’s. Sleep helps to drain toxins from the brain, leaving you feeling refreshed and renewed.

More than 5 million Americans are diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease[3]. Though most of them are 65 and over, this disease can be detected at early as age 40 or 50. By following these tips and using the helpful resources, you can help prevent this number from increasing.



[1] https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/resolution-not-conflict/201606/clearing-the-fog-craniosacral-therapy-aims-ease-dementia

[2] http://www.prevention.com/fitness/how-exercise-can-help-prevent-alzheimers-disease

[3] http://www.alz.org/facts/


Are People With Rosacea at Higher Risk for Alzheimer’s?

Are People With Rosacea at Higher Risk for Alzheimer’s?

As with so many illnesses in the body, it really is about addressing the underlying inflammation. It is far less likely that there is a causal link, and instead an issue of inflammation caused by lifestyle (stress, inflammation promoting diet, etc). If you work to reduce or eliminate the underlying inflammation, you will greatly reduce your risk of both health concerns.

“Certain proteins and inflammatory processes have been found in increased levels in the skin of patients with rosacea,” noted Egeberg, “These have also been linked to dementia, in particular Alzheimer’s disease,” he added. However, “while this may be one potential explanation, we cannot say for sure that this is the cause.” Dr. Anton Porsteinsson…agreed that “there may be common processes that put you at risk for both disorders.”

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Sleeping Pill Exit Strategy

The term comes from a recent CNN piece on women and health.

Here are some statistics:

80 million Americans suffer from some form of insomnia or sleeplessness.

60% of American women suffer from some form of sleeplessness, which would suggest this first 80 million figure might be a bit low.

The CNN contributors seemed to suggest that many women use sleeping aids of some kind. Using these aids for the long term may cause dependency and ultimately cause unwanted problems.

What causes insomnia?

In a word, stress. Our reticular activitating system (RAS) in the brain can get overstimulated due to continuously high demand periods and ongoing emergencies. Like a switch that gets stuck in the ‘on’ position, this continuously high demand flight or flight part of our brain continues to be stimulated 24/7, making if difficult to transition to a restful, recuperative sleep which helps repair the stress and strain of the day.

Sleeping pills and the like may work for a while, but typically their effect is lessened over time, not to mention other side effects they may introduce. As a bonus, this ongoing overstimulation of our nervous system may lead to or encourage the creation of long-term inflammatory processes which may hasten the aging process. Take a look at my blogs on my Geriatric classes and Anti Aging suggestions for more input on this.

A solution:

CranioSacral Therapy (CST) creates balance in our autonomic nervous system, bringing more balance and synergy between our sympathetic (more active) nervous system and parasympathetic nervous system. A regular addition and application of CranioSacral Therapy can help retrain and ‘reset’ our reticular activitating system and turn off the stress switch which interferes with the normal sleep cycle, and lessen our dependence on sleeping pills and other artificial aids.

Hence, a Sleeping Pill Exit Strategy.